
Everyone respects the self-made man, the person who attained success by starting at the bottom rung of the ladder; the one who overcame all sorts of obstacles with perseverance, dedication, and hard work to ascend to the top. People have little respect for the person born with the proverbial silver-spoon in his mouth; the one who never accomplished anything on his own but inherited everything he has from Mommy and Daddy.
If we respect the self-made man who attained material abundance by virtue of his own efforts, then we can’t help but respecting the “self-made Jew,” the one who travelled a rocky uphill road – with Hashem’s loving guidance, of course - to attain every morsel of spiritual gain while paying the price of sweat, blood, and tears.
Don’t get me wrong – we BTs (baalei teshuva, spiritually-awakened Jews) were certainly not born with a kosher silver spoon in our mouths, yet I’m referring to another type of self-made Jew. These are the young people who were born in observant homes and for any number of reasons (which we’ll soon touch on, G-d willing) fell by the spiritual wayside. Now, they are returning on their own accord to observant Judaism.
We often hear the negative attitudes toward the “off the derech” kids, also known as the “at risk” kids. These are the youth that are on a dangerous downward spiral – or more accurately a nosedive – in their observance of Torah and mitzvoth.
During my recent speaking tours in the USA, I had the rare privilege of sitting down and candidly discussing the worrisome phenomenon of “falling off the derech” with many young people who were born in the Chassidic strongholds of Williamsburg, Monsey, Boro Park and Monroe. The good news is that many of these same wonderful young people – and I purposely stress wonderful – are coming back to observant Judaism in droves, largely by virtue of the the teachings of my beloved teacher and spiritual guide, Rabbi Shalom Arush, may Hashem bless him. Last year, over four hundred of these recently self-made Jews attended our emuna shiur in Williamsburg’s Kollel W. This year, over six hundred attended “Dynamite Night”, an evening of song and emuna that we did in Monsey with the popular Jewish-music star Lipa Schmeltzer.
Lipa Schmeltzer has attained a reputation in recent years of being a Chassidic black sheep as well as the bad boy of Jewish music. Yet, I’ve been privileged to witness his amazing spiritual growth in recent months, which includes his thirst for the teachings of Rav Shalom Arush as well as two pilgrimages to Rebbe Nachman’s holy gravesite in Uman. Lipa and his close friend Sam Indig asked me to tutor them on the fine points of personal prayer, then stood with me for a full hour on Shabbat afternoon – instead of sleeping off their cholent – to spend a solemn sixty minutes straight in hitbodedut by Rebbe Nachman’s holy gravesite. Not only that, but Lipa and Sam are instrumental in bringing dozens (that I know about, but it could be hundreds) of the off-the-derech young people back to the fold, but this time as self-made Jews who are choosing to return to Hashem on their own accord and to serve Hashem the way they choose, not the way they were forced. I had an interesting discussion with several of the self-made chevrei who accompanied Lipa and Sam to Uman:
Continue reading Self-Made Jews on this week's stimulating issue of Breslev Israel web magazine. Also featured this week:
Rabbi Shalom Arush: Reb Yitzchak's Bitachon
Rabbi Avraham HaCohen Cook: A Leader for Israel
Zev Ballen: Like a Seal
Noahide Corner: Shark Fins and Shabbat, all about Noahides in Singapore
Rivka Levy: The Bee Man
Natalie Kovan: Facebook Survivor
Dovber Halevi: Divine Eyesight
Chaya Ovadia: A Mouthful of Good
Yael Karni: Rabbi Arush's Masterpieces
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