The more a person develops his or her spiritual awareness and spiritual self, the more he or she realizes their own treasured individuality. Just as their fingerprints are unique, so are their souls. The unique person doesn't enjoy "hanging" with others in idle talk, wasted time and inconsequential endeavors. He or she would much rather be alone in a field, on a mountain or on the beach, communing with the Almighty. Such a spiritually developed person loves solitude. Don't be mistaken, solitude is the opposite of loneliness. When you feel Hashem's presence all around you, you're never lonely.