14 posts categorized "Uman"

Happy Birthday, David!!

Photo from Racheli Reckles (11)

YES!!! This is one of the BEST days of my life!! It's David's Hebrew birthday, and he's off to Uman with TWO of my boys!!

Seriously, can life get any better? Peace and quiet with my three little monkeys for 10 days! Less laundry! Less fighting, screaming and door slamming! Less lunches to make that will come back unopened! And.... less nagging!

Let me tell you how much Hashem loves David. When we were dating and just married, his birthday used to be fun. We used to go out for dinner at the restaurant of my choice, and I think I got him a birthday gift once. Or was that a Father's Day gift? Hard to remember. 

But somewhere along the line, something changed. Whenever David's birthday would come around, I'd start nagging him and getting on his case like crazy. Like, I'd really be in a bad mood. And he would complain that my bad mood was ruining his birthday, and I would complain that his complaining was ruining my bi-annual opportunity to go to a fancy restaurant. 

So, Hashem fixed all of this drama for us by making David's birthday fall just a few days before Rosh Hashana, when he would have to be in Uman. At least, so he says. He manages the hotel that Breslev Israel rents out, so each year he has to be there a few days early to set up and receive everyone. But maybe that's all a big lie just so he can get away from me early.

For the past eight years, David has spent his birthday away from his nagging, annoying, angry wife. Seriously. How much does Hashem love the guy??

But wait! Would you like to know the reason I've been a royal pain every single birthday? It's not my fault! Last year I suddenly realized that on his birthday, he would walk around like King Henry VIII, demanding that he be given the royal treatment or else... And I'm like, listen Your Royal Highness, I can be more annoying than all of your six wives together, PLUS I can even spend more money than they could. Not like I have that much to spend. But I manage to do it somehow! I'm building his vessel, as they say in Kabbalah. In order to make money, you have to spend money. Or your wife has to spend so much money that you have no choice but to make a lot of money or else you're in big trouble with American Express.

So, if you see David in Uman tomorrow, wish him a happy birthday and high-five him that he managed to pull this getting away from his wife nonsense for eight years in a row. 

Don't worry, payback's a something that I can't say on this blog. When he ends up taking ALL FIVE boys to Uman, I'm going to book myself a suite at the most luxurious hotel in Israel for Rosh Hashana! I'm already saving up his my money! Yeah, right.

Have a wonderful day! And if you're traveling to Uman, I hope you have short lines and no delays! And to all of the fantastic, amazing, strong women who let their husbands go, YOU ROCK!!

Email me if you want to get on to my what'sapp group, Women of Uman! racheli@breslev.co.il



Is Uman Safe This Year?

Uman to Donetsk

Click on the above map to see it clearly, enlarged and in greater detail.

Irma, North Korea and other recent natural disasters have clouded Europe's news of the ongoing hostilities between Russia and the Ukraine. The recent news reports that Russia is "invading" Ukraine are quite blown out of proportion. If Russia invades somewhere, then it's a lot more powerful than 1,000 soldiers and a few tanks. 

Quite a few people have been asking me if it's safe to travel to Uman this Rosh Hashana, especially since the US State Department issued an updated Ukraine Travel Warning earlier this summer. If you read the warning, it's only talking about the Eastern Ukraine hotspots near the Russian border, which are about 700 kilometers  (440 miles) away from Uman, which is in Central Ukraine.

If that's not enough, I asked Rav Shalom Arush if it's safe to travel to Uman for Rosh Hashana this year. He smiled, and answered that the entire conflict is the Evil Inclination's ploy to keep people away from Rebbe Nachman's Rosh Hashana in Uman. The Rav promised that it is certainly safe, so go ahead and make your arrangements. We look forward to seeing you.

G-d willing, I will be giving classes in English in the Kloiz on Tuesday afternoon, September 19 and on Shabbat afternoon, September 23, 2017.

See Racheli's laundry lessons in the post directly below

Women of Uman

Hi All! Racheli here, and I'm thinking of designing shirts that say, "Women of Uman" on them. I'll send each brave and righteous woman a free t-shirt because she sent her husband to Uman for Rosh Hashana. I came up with this idea because a friend of mine asked me for my opinion about sending her husband to Uman for Rosh Hashana. I was like, "For sure! I don't really like the guy anyway." I know. I have a terrible sense of humor. Well, obviously I am slightly biased, since I have been sending my husband for six or seven years. My math is embarrassing and I'm so tired, so let's just round it up to seven.

Her main concern was that she would be alone for the biggest holiday of the Jewish Year. So I totally get it. It's not easy to be alone during a time when families are celebrating the new year together, enjoying 8-hour prayer marathons, eating 'til they can barely breathe, and quality time arguing with each other.

Plus, if you live in a place where you don't have family or close friends, or any kind of support system to help you get through the holiday, it can be even more lonely, and so much more difficult. I go through this every year, taking care of my five hooligans all by my lonesome self. Is it really worth all of the suffering you and your kids will have to go through, just so your husband can pray by a holy gravesite with 40,000 other men for two days?

My answer is an absolute YES.

Ladies, if you're on the fence, or even if you're adamantly against sending your husbands to Uman, consider this: Rosh Hashana is not the "New Year" in the traditional sense. It is the seed for the entire year. This means that any action done on these two days has far-reaching effects, into the coming year and beyond. It also means that any judgment passed during these two days will be realized during the following year, and the effects will manifest for the rest of your lifetime and beyond.

Rosh Hashana is a day when the Heavenly Court opens up your file and goes through it with an electron microscope. It is your two days in court, and all of your mitzvahs and transgressions will be presented as evidence. Based on all of the facts, the Heavenly Judges will decide on a verdict. You will experience their verdict over the coming year, with all of the blessings and hardships that it brings.

That is why we spend two days filled with intense prayers; so we can do our maximum to request a merciful verdict. But, let me ask you - would you ever act as your own defense attorney in court? Imagine if someone takes you to court for something you did. Would you really trust yourself to win your case? Or would you hire the best attorney you can afford?

Rebbe Nachman is promising us that he himself will act as our defense attorney on these most influential two days. In fact, he has said that his Rosh Hashana is more important than everything. To me, this means that he will go to the ends of the universe in order to secure for us a year filled with maximum blessings. The only catch is that you have to be present with him in the courtroom. Imagine a defense attorney saying, "My client is innocent of these charges, blah, blah, blah." But his client is too busy enjoying his wife's matzah ball soup to show up in court.

How many other tzaddikim are giving you such an unbelievable promise?

In life, the more valuable an item is, the more expensive it is. It's also true in spirituality. If you want tremendous blessings, they don't come for free. You have to do your maximum to earn them. So, two days alone isn't comfortable. It's not fun. But what's the payoff for your investment of two days? 363(is that right?) days of blessings above and beyond what you could have accomplished by yourself. 

Isn't that worth it? To me, it sure is.

Chaim Meir Erps: My Rebbe Nachman

This time of the year, we start to feel the anticipation and excitement of our upcoming Rosh Hashana in Uman. Here is a wonderful clip, full of images from Uman at Rosh Hashana time, by our sweet friend, the dynamic star of Jewish music, Chaim Meir Erps. It's in Yiddish and Hebrew, but you'll understand it. Get ready to dance...

By the way, here's some great news: our group in Uman has attained a few more rooms for Rosh Hashana. We have a fantastic English-speaking group with the best accommodations in Uman, our own private mikva, delicious food, mehadrin shechita and home-baked bread, and many more perks, such as our own private Shabbat dinner and shiur with Rav Shalom Arush and our own private davening on Shabbat. Would you like to join us? Call USA 1-786-350-3738 or Israel 054-543-2774, or write innuman@yahoo.com - hope to see you in Uman!

The Blacksmith of Grodno

Blacksmith of Grodno
Shabbat Chanukah reminds me of my great grandfather, who died some 26 years before I was born.

My maternal great grandfather, Reb Yankev ("The Blacksmith") Podrub from Grodno, Belarus (formerly Poland) was a legendary figure in the annals of Stolin-Karlin Chassidus. He arms were like twisted steel, but his disposition was extremely gentle. Although he was a blacksmith. he was also a Talmudic scholar. He worked so that his little brother, Arie Leib, could attend rabbinical yeshiva. Ultimately, Arie Leib became the head rabbi of Meretch in Lithuania and one of the prime students of Rav Chaim Ozer Grudzinski, osb"m.

The renowned "Yanuka" of Stolin, the famous Rebbe Yisroel Perlov ob'm who had over 20,000 Chassidim, would stay in Reb Yankev's house every Shabbat Chanuka when he'd visit his chassidim in Grodno. Even more, The Stoliner Rebbe - who loved horses - insisted that only Reb Yankev shoe his horses. From what the old Stoliner Chassidim told me, the Rebbe loved my great-grandfather's pure and simple emuna and the innocence in which he served Hashem. Reb Yankev would be so excited that the Rebbe was a guest in his home that he'd dance all night long. Rav Binyomin Adler, who was head of the Kashruth Department in the Jerusalem Rabbinate, heard from his uncle - who was also a guest in my great grandfather's home when the Rebbe was there, that Reb Yankev danced all night long in the living room, singing, "Shabbat! Chanukah! Rosh Chodesh! Rebbe!" and making such a commotion that no one could sleep.

What was so special about Reb Yankev? He never spoke small talk. Even at work, he'd mumble tehillim and mishnayot. Also, his trust in Hashem was phenominal - he'd only work long enough to earn that same day's bread with one extra kopeck; he saved the extra kopecks in a jar all year long, and then at the end of the year, he'd use the money to travel to his Rebbe in Stolin for Rosh Hashanna. As such, my great grandfather lived his connection with the tzaddik all year long.

The minute Reb Yankev finished his day's work, he'd fly up the stairs to the Stoliner shtiebel, conveniently located on the second floor over the smithy, and open up a Gemara. Grodno lore holds him as one of the hidden tzaddikim of the area, may his blessed memory be cherished always.

***There's a poignant epilog to the above story: when I received my rabbinical ordination in 1992 from Rav Yitzchak Kulitz of blessed memory, former head Rabbi of Jerusalem, he told me that my great-uncle Arie Leib, Reb Yankev's younger brother, was the rabbi who ordained his father. In fact, when Rabbi Arie Leib passed away, Rav Kulitz's father took his place as the head rabbi of Meretch in Lithuania. It was my great grandfather who enabled his little brother Arie Leib to learn in Yeshiva. Now, Rav Kulitz was ordaining me - a lovely cycle was completed.

I heard the above stories and many more from my grandmother Kailie of blessed memory, from Rav Yitzchak Kulitz of blessed memory, former head Rabbi of Jerusalem, who as a little boy saw my great grandfather, and from Rav Benyamin Adler shlit'a of Jerusalem, whose uncle knew my great grandfather well, and from the elderly Stolin-Karlin chassidim of Jerusalem.

I know that alte zaidie (Yiddish for great grandfather) has nachas (gratification) that his great granchildren are continuing on in the way of Torah and Chassidus. You know what that means? The Greeks and the Hellenists lost, and so did Hitler and western assimilation. With simple emuna, we shall continue to overcome, with G-d's help. Have a wonderful Shabbat Chanukah and Rosh Chodesh!

Uman, Ukraine and Geula

According to Breslever tradition, the annual gathering of Breslever Chassidim in Uman on Rosh Hashana and the Geula, the full and final redemption of our people, are closely intertwined. Hashem gave Rebbe Nachman both secrets. Consequently, Rebbe Nachman said before his death that we should all come to Uman on Rosh Hashana. He also said that his fire shall burn until the coming of Moshiach. That could be ever so close, as many of today's spiritual leaders are saying.

Let's see what's happening now in the Ukraine:

Map of Ukraine

Double-click on the above map of the Ukraine to view it enlarged and more clearly

The red circle in the center of the map is Uman, the site where Rebbe Nachman of Breslev is buried. Uman is slightly north of the imaginary line, which I drew in blue, that separates the northwestern pro-Ukraine half of the Ukraine from the southeastern pro-Russia side of the Ukraine.  The purple box at the bottom right is the Crimean Peninsula, which has already been annexed by Russia. The black boxes indicate places where violence has already erupted on a large scale.

According to Reuters, the Ukraine is quickly slipping into a civil war. Few would have believed that several days ago, but since 42 people were killed in Odessa this past Friday, violence has been spreading fast. Odessa is a mere 2.5 hour drive from Uman.

People have been writing and asking what will be with Uman this Rosh Hashana. As it is, the USA and Germany have already issued travel restrictions to the Ukraine. Israel has not at this point. Flights are on schedule between Kiev and Tel Aviv, and every day, new immigrants from the Ukraine are arriving in Israel in growing numbers.

I can't verbally explain how, but my heart tells me that the unrest in the Ukraine is closely tied to the Geula. Interestingly, Uman is the pivot point between the two sides. If the hostilities blow over, then we'll certainly be in Uman on Rosh Hashana. And if the Ukraine is ablaze, with travel there impossible, then it means that we'll hopefully celebrate this coming Rosh Hashana in our rebuilt Holy Temple in Jerusalem, amen!